still cannot understand him after listenning to th

i listened to the audiobook. the biography is well written (though the end is much worse than the beginning - obviously it's written up under the time pressure) but it is talking about someone who does not interest me so much. Jobs is great in terms of his perfectionism on products and he indeed left some dust in the universe and changed our life, just look at the ipad, iphone and ipod we used everyday. but this guy is a torture to the people close to him, working for him and the one gave birth to him (and he also abandoned his daughter!). i really dislike the acts and thoughts and words made by him in his youth. after listening to this long book i still cannot understand him. i don't which category he could be put into in my memory, partly because there is no similar guy in my circle. he is just special.