内容简介：
When we are depressed, heartbroken, confined, fearful, rejected or facing an illness, we often ask ourselves: 'Why me?' Loving is Becoming is an attempt to answer that question. This book discloses a secret 'self' within each of us, so well hidden, that even we are often unaware of it. Understanding why we are the way we are, and why we do the things we do, gives us the power to change without putting ourselves in the hands of others. Knowing yourself is not a simple task. It can be frightening, and is probably therefore not high on your list of priorities. It is essential, nonetheless, if you are ever to find true love. You may have noticed that people who love themselves find it easy to love others and to accept love from others. Those of us who say we can't find someone to love, generally don't feel we are worth loving and being loved. We can change that. Reading this book will challenge your mind, heart and soul. Your intellect, emotions and imagination are all called for because none of them can discover 'self' alone. If you rely upon the 'scientific method, ' and doubt the reality of 'self, love, and God, ' you are in for a pleasant surprise. Male and female intimacy and bonding is available to us all. No more walls, doubts or fear to separate us from 'becoming' whole, loved and loving individuals. It's all here for you without any gimics or tricks. 'Why Me?' you may ask, and the answer to that question is very simply: 'Why not you?' This is serious writing for serious readers. I hope you enjoy my book. Dolan Andrews