getting conflicting wants worked out.

相信读过的人都会收益。

Any one read this will benefit from thinking in this way and learn to solve own problem.

while I am reading, one thought come from it is the following:

Every one has desires. If I can not find a solution for my own desire, I should not blame any one for my disappointment. When you are angry for someone having not met your desire, you should know that's your problem, not the other's. No one is more selfish than the other in most of the situation. You might just have some confict desires.

The best way to think about this scenario is to get conflicting wants worked out.