内容简介：
Falling in love with your fantasy man can be disastrous, especially when your fantasy man is indeed just a fantasy. Shelley lost her self-esteem, her self confidence and her identity while living with her fantasy man. She told herself that if she just tried harder or loved him enough that everything would be alright. The battle between the family values and morals that she grew up with, and a natural born stubborn streak to prove everyone else was wrong caused more grief in her life than one can imagine. Exhausted physically, financially and emotionally, Shelley eventually succeeded in regaining her identity. It was not easy; the road was long and painful. Doubts plagued her every move, and she lived with the fear of escaping with her life and her children intact.