Being impressed
2016-06-19
Imaging we are born in a world that, as the author assuming in the book, everyone has congenital skin disease in a certain age. When humans are infants they do not feel the difference of their bodies but with growing up the disease shows. Our skin feels hurt every time we are touched by others. Every doctor says it is normal because everyone is all the same so everybody lives in this way. And parents keep telling their next generation that it hurts and influence them on their own. Actually the disease means our wounds inside which do not show when we were children. With time passing by, we have fear, we have opinions of others, we eager for love and we beg for acceptance, which is the process the wounds appear and the customs form. To show the originality, Miguel Ruiz explains how love performs and how we overcome difficulties of it.
I feel quite impressed and touched. What is the definition of love?
None of us dares to clarify and even Miguel Ruiz himself can only show us the iceberg. For the first time, however, I was told that my pain is real and accepted, through the book. We tend to avoid the possible hurt so we keep careful in relationships. We tend to be afraid of being hurt again because our stereotype of wound so we keep pushing or hurting people in our way. What if we can face with our wounds of how they caused and how we curved them in our hearts?
Is there any possibility that we can heal our wounds inside and feel no more hurt, that we can try hard and chase braver the time we are faced with another opportunity of a job, a dream and even a person, that we can live peacefully and happily for the forgiveness of regrets, that we can educate our next generation better and treat the old kinder?
For my part, I can say that I finally find my love settled and my pain in peace, for I know that the true love comes inside independently and shows outside purely and confidently.